WAY TO LIVE A HAPPY LIFE

Loving and kindness

Always be positive and love everybody irrespective of caste, creed or colour, you must never inculcate negative thoughts that harm your aura. Try and be more patient and kind as it helps detoxify your system.

Do not worry

Being worried all the time takes away from your being able to enjoy every day delights such as sunshine, rain or just a walk in the park. Clear your mind of anything that can cause stress or take you away from your true nature, which is being helpful and sincere.

Do not be idle

An idle mind is a devil’s workshop. Always be occupied mentally not in self defeating pursuits or materialistic gains, but in discovering your true self. This will help you make peace with the world around you.

22nd November ‘08

This day was the most unforgettable day. We had Nikita’s marriage treat in Hotel Abu palace. Reached the hotel by 2pm. Waiting for all the other and Shiji said she was on the way. finally all of are friends reached. Niki was very cute and pretty in her pink saree. I was very much exited to see all my old friends and colleges. We had a great lunch there. It was very yummy and Jammun was as sweet as Niki.I was chatting will all and didn’t even leave a new joiner, without any introduction started to chat with them. I don’t know what the thought of me. But the whole point is I had a great time.There after, as usual Me, Niki, Niru and Vinu went to coffee day and we had non stop maja with Vinod, because he didn’t shut his mouth. The topic covered little of politics, some official matters, few experience, about rescission and some of our sweet memories. On the whole our chat was all about nothing and non-sense but we enjoyed it. I had a great evening. That day was really a special day for me.

Skip-a-Meal & Change the Fate of A Child

"A world full of love, light and laughter – it’s time has come. Let us make it happen." - Sadhguru

I had an invite from Isha yoga sathsang. I went to attend the meeting this morning, the meeting made a slight difference in my life and we would have never thought of such thing. Are you not sure of what I am talking about..I will tell it for sure.

A meal would seem like such an ordinary affair in our life. But can you imagine that with the equivalent of a simple plate of food, you could help empower a destitute child with quality education?

Sadhguru urges one and all to skip a meal every Wednesday and donate the amount that you would have spent on the meal to Isha Vidhya. With your support, Isha Vidhya can build and run English Matriculation Schools all over rural Tamil Nadu.

Give poor and deprived children the type of education and exposure that they naturally deserve. Your contribution can help them escape a life of poverty and hopelessness. For further details please visit www.ishafoundation.org/skip-a-meal.Just by saving one meal once a week, you can...
· Support a rural child’s education
· Give a child a brighter future
· Help changing the face of rural India

Today they gave me a dump box to save my money every week for the benefit of poor children and for their education. Hmmm… I have started to support this project from this week. And U ?.

Content from www.ishafoundation.org/skip-a-meal

Waiting...

Waiting, this is really irritating for us. Isn't it? . Today I really got bugged. From the morning I would have at least waited for 5 hours..

I had to meet a manager of a company regarding my project with my friends. I started from home early morning since it will take time to reach the place. I went to railway station, where one of my friends said she will wait for me there. There it begins.. I was waiting for her. I got embarrassed because people who pass by seeing me with some sort of questions in there mind and giving a sarcastic look. Then she came after 20 minutes. But I don’t want to show my anger to her and welcomed her with my smile.

Then we both had to pick up another friend. There again we had to wait. Hmmm…I thought that I have to teach some punctuality for them. She came and met us by saying thousands of sorry.
We where standing in bus stop waiting for bus. Oops…the weather was too hot and we were wiping the sweat and were expecting the bus. After hours the bus arrived. Then some how managed to reached the office. Shocked to see, none of them where in office and we reached there too early. We waited for 3 hours in the reception to meet the manager. After that he came, we met him. We went through all the procedure regarding the project. Finally, we got the project from that company and it was a great success for us.People will fly once they obtain an expected and a fruitful result and always will forget the horrible situations that they have faced all the way to reach their success. The same way we forgot all that we had faced to achieve the destiny. A great relief after pain.

$NooPY & $MooTHY

Wondering who are they???...These are my pets. I don’t want people to call them as dog and cat, because even they are one of our family members and I want others to call them by their name. The tail is the asset of both my Snoopy and Smoothy. I am not lying. You can check it out from the photo. I learned how to be close with people only from them. They both are intimate friends, except for sharing there food. Snoopy never want to share any thing with anybody and very selfish (Like me ;-)) but Smoothy is really cool and soft natured and very adjustable (Like my sister).

SNOOPY

Love flows from her when we get into our home, any of our family members for that matter. She is very scared of blasting sound and at the time of Diwali she never steps out of the home. She is very found of the place under the cot. She loves to bark for unnecessary things, like she don’t like van or lorry passing our home (sounds funny isn’t it?). Her nature. She is very arrogant and never let any cats or rats in to our home. She will kill it for sure and Smoothy is exception for her. Her favorite food is bread, bun, jileabi, Jangiri and many more (Ha ha ha).

SMOOTHY

Cool and soft natured. Love to sleep all time. His favorite food is dosa that too it should hot and crispy. He will be in kitchen when we prepare dosa and special character of him is he used to climb up on our chair, call us and ask for the food as children do.

I love them so much. I wanted them to read my blog and enjoy reading what I have written about them, but then I know it is not possible…

Im Blessed with Niki, Shiji, Niru, Vinu

After meeting these people I felt that I am really blessed.

Nikita Porwal (alias) Niki Chechi

My sister cum sweet friend, she lead the way for meeting these personalities. Bubbly girl, who has a lively character. I never had seen her face dull. Always she is fresh with her smile and crazy doings. She is very good at managing people and handling situations, which impressed me the most. I learned a lot from her. She is going to get married in few months. I wish her a very happy married life.
Gonna mis u da..
Love you so much Niki.

Shijina (alias) Shiji

My chweet friend. She never talks to me politely. Always very harsh and that’s what I like in her. I can truly feel a hidden love in her words. She is very different from others in this way. She is my teacher of “Dos and Don’ts”. She was my guide if fact.

I generally used to share incident that happened in office with my college friends. Same way I was tell about Shiji to my friend Rebe and she spontaneously said even she had a friend named Shijna in her school days. After all discussion and by telling some identities we came to know that we were talking about the same person. I was happy hear that Shiji is our mutual friend. That was one of my sweet moments.

Niranjan (alias) Niru

The perfect PETA(People for the Ethical Treatment of Animals)boy who has his own rules and regulation. He shares is opinion, gives me suggestion and He is very caring to wards me . We love to make people get irritated and enjoy watching it. Niru… I think you don’t need too much of explanation regarding this. I am reminded of our meet in ‘Ashvita’s Café’. Had lot of fun with him. Can’t forget those days…

Vinod Crispon (alias) Vinu

‘Words from a caring person can change any situation and can boost up you’ I strongly believe in this because of this young man. Most optimistic character. Vinu, was the one who made me to realize about real friendship. I am very lucky to have him as my friend. I love to hear his words when I am down. I am talking too much of his words isn’t it.. do you people want to read some of those ‘Magic words from Vinu’?.

• C m jus encouragng u 2 go by ur dsires.If nt 2 suport each othr, watelse a fren s thr?

• Wil pray dat ur hapines sustains 4 evr....B smart nvr let us hopes drip, n as u knw,ur realy energetic so u mk an awesm package 2 b sucesful. Wil pray 4 u k.

• Always go by wat ur heart says k., n frens wil support u 4 dat.


Its really heartening words rite?.

Now you say. Am I not really blessed?. I feel well secured and safe when these people are around me….

Life @ Contempo

Those 90 days of my life was the days which I enjoyed the most. Enjoyed to the core. Since it was my first office, I don’t know how to move with people in office. I continued to chat with all, as I do in my college. I remember getting scolding from my boss. He used to warn me often. I will try to maintain some professional ethics. But it was really hard for me to do that.

My friends list was getting extended each day. I was placed at a superior position in their hearts. I got great friends from there.. I can name few..Shijina, Nikkita, Niranjan, Crispon, Sathya, Ammudha, Vanitha, Ellavarasi, Prakash, Barath…Hmmm..list goes on. I should also say about Ravi anna, saravanan, muthu, chandru..who where my best companion in my office. The best part of our office was ‘Games’ which we had on alternative Saturdays. We will forget ourselves when we are in to games.

On the whole, I had great fun and friendship. I don really remember me working in my office. This was the thing which I am supposed to do first. But…
Fine, let me try doing it at least in my next work place.

My 1st Interview..

I stepped into Contempo Tech with lots of questions in my mind and that was my first company and my first interview too.…Went there by my friends reference. She asked me to wait in the reception since Boss was bit busy with his work. I was in the reception and was into a great imagination about the boss and what he is going to ask me. Too much of tension but I don’t want to express it because I can see people watching me and passing comments. My eyes where rolling around the company. In few minutes she came and took me to boss room.

Surprised to see my boss, he was totally different from what I have imagined. I thought he may be above 35 or 40. But I saw too much of youth filled in him, so enthusiastic. If you want to know more about him just make a click here.

Yes I sat in front of him.. Just blinking but he made me comfortable by asking simple questions and the way of his approach pleased me. Here comes the tragedy…...you know what, I acted too smart by asking him question and I myself showed that I am mandooos and I am not strong in my subject. Do you want to know the question which I asked him?…Hmmm…I will tell you. The question was ‘what is a purpose of connecting database to website?’ isn’t it sounds stupid?. And that was my most embarrassing moment. Ya.. Sometimes it happens……

Never ever question the interviewer. If ever you have any doubts please ask to others or ask him/her later. Finally the beauty was I got selected and I enjoyed working there….

Mischievous Back Bench Girls (BBG)

We are known as BBG (Back Bench Girls)…Oops it was a golden period of our life time. We can’t forget the days we enjoyed in our college but now we are out of our college. It the universal fact that friends gang are formed when their thoughts are of same wavelength. That’s true with our gang too. We are seven of us in our gang. Actually It was 8 and our rocking horse was in a situation that she has to discontinue her studies.

Here are few place where we often visit in our college, the first and fore most is our HOD’s cabin atleast four times in a week we will go and visit (note: our college works only for five days in a week) and the remaining one day she will come and meet us. We will never get sleep if we don’t get ‘pooja’ from her that day.

Our lab was another important place and almost all hours we used to spend in lab. We are supposed to study and do programs in lab but except for that we well all the other mischievous things. I remember an incident.. we 7 where sitting in same row in front of the system and all where wearing salvar. Suddenly mandy had a thought that we will pin up our dhupatta and then thought of moving around the lab. The plan was half the way, we had fixed up our dhupatta and stood up with a lot of joy in our face.(unexpected thing happened) Gone…every thing gone…a terror(our mam) was standing in the entrance of the lab and was watching it….then what, as usual straight visit to HOD’s room. Got nice scoldings.. I can find her table is filled with our apology letter. Hmmm…There are many other serious happenings which we have faced in thesr 2 ½ years but it was always seems to be funny for us.

The perfect idea of our gang is not to be like other girls in our class and we want to show our self as different in something or the other and we where highlighted by our mischievousness and always people make us remind that we are professionals but you know its very hard to set straight dogs tail…

My 1st scribbling...

Hello friends this is my first blog. My heart speaks with you people and it is always in need of your help. When ever I read others blogs I will have a thought that ‘if they can then why cant I?’. This sentence made me to create a blog of mine. I know I am zero in writting stuff. But I hope that no man knows everything and everybody is a child when the begin things. Reading others blog was my inspiration and I have successfully started it.

You people would have experienced it…We will feel more relaxed when we share things to our friends and even more relaxed when they leave their comments, suggestion and when they say there opinion to us. Isn’t it ?.
Generally I never used to share things with others but I don’t know suddenly I wanted to do this and all I need is your support and suggestion.